All that glitter is not gold

“Stupid as a man" say the women: “cowardly as a woman" say the men. Stupidity in woman is unwomanly. (Nietzsche)

It takes two to tango

The minute I heard my first love story

I started looking for you,

not knowing how blind that was.

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.

They're in each other all along.

(Jalaludding Rumi, "The Minute I Heard My First Love Story" dari terjemahan bahasa Inggris Coleman Barks)

It takes two to tango. Let fate take me where it will.